What Really Happens During a Massage (and Why It Feels So Good)
- Dr. Tatiana Parzynski
- Apr 23
- 3 min read
Massage as a Whole-System Healing Modality
Ever wonder why you feel so relaxed, light, and clear-headed after a massage therapy session? It’s not just because someone worked the knots out of your shoulders (although that definitely helps). Massage therapy sets off a cascade of healing responses in your body and mind that go far beyond the treatment table.
When I was in medical school, massage was pretty much my main form of healthcare (thank you, Carly), aside from the occasional rescue acupuncture treatment from my husband (thank you, Mark). Those regular bodywork sessions quite literally carried me through years of physical and mental exhaustion from constant sitting, studying, and stressing out. Massage became my reset-physically, mentally, emotionally. And it still is. Because the benefits of bodywork don’t end when you get off the table.
Massage sets off a ripple effect, a shift that touches nearly every system in the body. It’s an unfolding cascade of healing responses that moves through both body and mind.
Your Nervous System Shifts from Fight-or-Flight to Rest-and-Digest
As you settle onto the massage table and your therapist begins to work, your nervous system shifts from “fight or flight” (sympathetic mode) into “rest and digest” (parasympathetic mode). This downshift is powerful. Cortisol - the stress hormone - begins to drop, returning to baseline. Your body starts to feel safe again. Breathing slows. Muscles soften. Mind chatter quiets.
What happens during massage: The Feel-Good Chemicals
Massage increases serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin-your natural mood-lifters. It also helps keep cortisol in check. Lets look at what each of these chemicals do in the body.
Serotonin brings that grounded, post-massage calm.
Dopamine gives you the "ahhh" feeling you might get from dark chocolate or a warm hug.
Oxytocin, the love hormone, shows up too, fostering connection, comfort, and trust.
This powerful chemical cocktail leaves you feeling soothed, rebalanced, and emotionally lifted.
Blood Flow and Circulation Get a Boost
Massage increases blood flow, delivering not just oxygen but also glucose, amino acids, electrolytes, healthy fats, hormones, and immune cells. Think of blood as your body’s delivery system. Massage boosts circulation, helping those healing elements reach the tissues that need them most.
Circulation might not be as trendy as cortisol or oxytocin, but it’s absolutely vital. It promotes healing and improves function and vitality throughout the body.
Massage Provides Natural Pain Relief
Pain relief and muscle recovery are often the main reasons people seek bodywork. In fact, massage has been used for centuries to ease pain. As the well-known Gate Control Theory of Pain explains, massage therapy activates the body’s own pain-inhibitory system. Plainly put, the nerves interpret therapeutic touch as non-threatening, safe input and transmit to the brain that the pain is actually less intense than it previously seemed. As a result, trigger points and muscular tension decrease - and we feel a whole lot better.
Fascia Responds with Hydration and Flexibility
Fascia-the connective tissue that wraps around muscles, organs, and bones-also responds to massage. It becomes more hydrated and pliable, which improves flexibility and range of motion. Sometimes, the spot that hurts isn’t even the one that needs work. Fascia connects it all. That’s why you might feel relief in places you didn’t even know were tight.
Massage Heals the Emotional Body Too
When the physical body feels supported, soothed, and safe, the emotional body often follows. The calm state of mind turns off “doing mode” and allows you to just be, a rare state in our never-ending, productivity-oriented culture. It’s in this restful calm that all healing begins. Bodywork can be a powerful physical therapy that also heals the mind because it shows us the way back home, to ourselves.
Massage Really Does Change You
So the next time you walk out of a massage feeling calmer, looser, more grounded-you’re not imagining it. You really are different. Your whole system just got a reset. From hormones to fascia, circulation to your emotional state, massage reaches layers most of us don’t even realize need tending. And that’s the beauty of it. Sometimes the most powerful medicine is touch-offered with presence, care, and intention.
Let it be one of the ways you come back to yourself. Again and again.
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